feat(unrelated): always say yes

docs/2023-10-02-unrelated.html

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         there too: It may be worth it.
       </p>
     </blockquote>
+    <h2 id="user-content-never-say-no-but-rarely-say-yes">
+      <a class="heading-link" href="#never-say-no-but-rarely-say-yes"></a
+      ><a href="https://longform.asmartbear.com/say-yes/" rel="nofollow"
+        >Never say “no,” but rarely say “yes.”</a
+      ><span aria-hidden="true" class="octicon octicon-link"></span>
+    </h2>
+    <blockquote>
+      <p>
+        So the principle is straightforward: Set the conditions of “yes” such
+        that:
+      </p>
+      <ul>
+        <li>
+          If they say “yes,” you’re happy because the terms or money are so
+          good, it more than compensates for the distraction, perhaps funding
+          the thing you really want to do.
+        </li>
+        <li>
+          If they say “no,” you’re happy because it wasn’t a great fit anyway;
+          it’s not a worthwhile return on your time and effort.
+        </li>
+      </ul>
+    </blockquote>
 
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posts/2023-10-02-unrelated.md

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 > before pushing back, before saying it’s too hard or it’s too much work. Those
 > things may be true, but there may be another truth in there too: It may be
 > worth it.
+
+## [Never say “no,” but rarely say “yes.”](https://longform.asmartbear.com/say-yes/)
+
+> So the principle is straightforward: Set the conditions of “yes” such that:
+>
+> - If they say “yes,” you’re happy because the terms or money are so good, it
+  > more than compensates for the distraction, perhaps funding the thing you
+  > really want to do.
+> - If they say “no,” you’re happy because it wasn’t a great fit anyway; it’s
+  > not a worthwhile return on your time and effort.